My wife and I were watching some TV show the other nite where the wife
hired a private detective to follow her husband and see if he were in
fact "cheating" on her. I asked my wife if she would ever do that.
She said, "Well not so much to find out who the other woman was, but
to see if I could find out what she saw in ya."
People will forget what you did.
But people will never forget how you made them feel.